firstly I would like to explain that I am no man hater, I give even the most unhopeful ones a second chance and I love my fiance dearly (when hes doing as hes told!), Im not the type of woman who believes that every single member of the male race is scum but there are a fair few who are!.
Time after time friends seem to come to me with man problems and its usually the same problems everytime
1. He doesnt let me go out but yet he goes out wherever and whenever he wants
2. Hes ogling other women when Im out with him and its starting to annoy me
3. I found porn on his computer and even though I know its his he denies it to my face
4. He doesnt trust me and accuses me of cheating when Im not
5. I fetch and carry for him but he does nothing
6. He never wants sex when I want it but yet when he wants it he gets it
7. I caught him cheating on me, took him back but things arent the same
I know that there are men out there that probably arent guilty of any of these (If you know them then hold onto him!!) but generally I find that most men are guilty of at least 3 of these, maybe more!.This includes my man whos guilty of numbers 2 and 6!.
So what do I tell my friends, well I tell them not to stand for it of course but yet everytime they ask for advice and I give it they seem to just chicken out when it comes to facing them, not say anything and then a month later they are sat on my sofa complaining about the same thing again.
Why is it that even though the majority of men are pigs, women seem content with moaning about them behind their backs but then allowing them to do all of these things anyway?, has it become some kind of custom that women think that its okay for the man that is supposed to love them to treat them like rubbish?.Is it just me but is the 1950s way of life returning in most homes?, the man seems to have the say all of the time regardless of whether they are right or wrong and the woman (oh I mean stepford wife) seems to just sit back and tolerate it, whatever next!, will we all have chains on our necks and be begging like dogs whilst men dictate like hitler!
Women everywhere (who are guilty of putting up with this)need to wake up and realise that their men, if they truly do love them like they say they do wouldnt treat them like a second class citizen and would honor their ideas, thoughts and feelings and not stamp all over them without a second thought.
Im not saying that women should rule men (wishful thinking haha), all im proposing is that men and women are equal, whats good for one should be good for the other and if a man looks at other women all the time then a woman has the right to do the same etc.
what do you all think?, should men be allowed to do as they please?, should women have the courage to stand up for what they believe?, Id really like to hear your views and/or experiences :).thanks for reading xx
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Time after time friends seem to come to me with man problems and its usually the same problems everytime
1. He doesnt let me go out but yet he goes out wherever and whenever he wants
2. Hes ogling other women when Im out with him and its starting to annoy me
3. I found porn on his computer and even though I know its his he denies it to my face
4. He doesnt trust me and accuses me of cheating when Im not
5. I fetch and carry for him but he does nothing
6. He never wants sex when I want it but yet when he wants it he gets it
7. I caught him cheating on me, took him back but things arent the same
I know that there are men out there that probably arent guilty of any of these (If you know them then hold onto him!!) but generally I find that most men are guilty of at least 3 of these, maybe more!.This includes my man whos guilty of numbers 2 and 6!.
So what do I tell my friends, well I tell them not to stand for it of course but yet everytime they ask for advice and I give it they seem to just chicken out when it comes to facing them, not say anything and then a month later they are sat on my sofa complaining about the same thing again.
Why is it that even though the majority of men are pigs, women seem content with moaning about them behind their backs but then allowing them to do all of these things anyway?, has it become some kind of custom that women think that its okay for the man that is supposed to love them to treat them like rubbish?.Is it just me but is the 1950s way of life returning in most homes?, the man seems to have the say all of the time regardless of whether they are right or wrong and the woman (oh I mean stepford wife) seems to just sit back and tolerate it, whatever next!, will we all have chains on our necks and be begging like dogs whilst men dictate like hitler!
Women everywhere (who are guilty of putting up with this)need to wake up and realise that their men, if they truly do love them like they say they do wouldnt treat them like a second class citizen and would honor their ideas, thoughts and feelings and not stamp all over them without a second thought.
Im not saying that women should rule men (wishful thinking haha), all im proposing is that men and women are equal, whats good for one should be good for the other and if a man looks at other women all the time then a woman has the right to do the same etc.
what do you all think?, should men be allowed to do as they please?, should women have the courage to stand up for what they believe?, Id really like to hear your views and/or experiences :).thanks for reading xx
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